Easing Homeschooling Pressure: Building a Stress-Free Routine for Success

Amidst the challenges of managing remote or hybrid learning models, a subset of parents

has opted for full-time homeschooling for their children. Navigating the realm of homeschooling can be unfamiliar and daunting. Experiencing feelings of stress, doubt, and being overwhelmed about the future is entirely common. While homeschooling may bring occasional unpredictability, you can approach it with confidence by establishing a straightforward routine and avoiding excessive expectations on yourself and your children.

Adjust Your Mindset

1. Get support from other parents and homeschool teachers.

If you've been away from school and are suddenly a "teacher," it might feel overwhelming. But there's help! Join online homeschooling forums or groups, where you can get advice and support. Also, talk to experienced homeschooling parents to learn about schedules and goals.

2. Remind yourself why you're homeschooling in the first place.

Amidst the homeschooling pressure, it's crucial to revisit your initial reasons for choosing this path. Reconnecting with your purpose can help alleviate stress and provide clarity in navigating the challenges.

3. Practice gratitude on a daily basis with your household.

Spend a few minutes with your kids listing things you're thankful for. Also, set one goal for the day and let go of a worry. For example, say, "I'm thankful for family time. Today, I'll help my kids with a science project and leave behind yesterday's stress for a better today."

4. Adjust your expectations on a day-to-day basis. 

Don't set unrealistic expectations for yourself or your kids in homeschooling. Recognize that they may not meet every productivity goal, and that's okay. Focus on a meaningful education that fits your work schedule, rather than aiming for lengthy study hours.

5. Switch up your teaching style if your kids aren't interested.

Observe how your children respond to each lesson. If a particular teaching style isn't effective, be open to adjusting it. Incorporate more interactive or visual elements into your lessons. Pay attention to what resonates most with your kids. For example, if reading aloud isn't appealing, try audiobooks. If lectures aren't engaging, introduce visuals. And if restlessness sets in, consider moving the lesson outdoors for a fresh environment.

Feel free to explore our website at www.oliviabaylor.com for additional resources. You'll find worksheets designed to captivate your child's focus and engage them in productive activities.

6. Give yourself more time than you actually need for lessons. 

Expect challenges during the day, like tough lessons or tantrums. Allow extra time in your schedule to prevent study delays. It's okay if your schedule isn't perfect; daily issues are normal. If teaching math, reading, and writing takes 3.5 hours, set aside 4.5 hours for these tasks.

7. Multi-task if you're caring for more than one child.

Focus on your younger kids first, as they need more guidance. Let older ones work alone while you attend to the little ones. Schedule breaks for refreshed learning. Teens can often study independently, freeing you to assist others. With three young children, encourage pairs to play together while you help one. For a baby, turn feeding time into shared stories.

8. Set aside some time to unwind.

After work and school, take a moment to unwind. Walk, read, or relax with your partner, sharing thoughts and support. If alone, create your own time after the kids sleep.

Plan For Rough Days

1. Identify the root of your child's problems as they arise.

Don't view a meltdown or temper tantrum at face value. Instead, think about any stressors that are contributing to your child’s behavior. Try to separate yourself from the problem and understand that your child’s issues are independent and separate from you. For instance, if a child throws a temper tantrum, their emotions may stem from feelings of stress or being overwhelmed. If your teen seems particularly moody, they may be missing their friends or extracurricular activities.

2. Write a list of calming activities for yourself and your children.

Brainstorm and list calming activities with your kids. Treat these as stress-relief options for tough times. Display the list (e.g., on the fridge) for easy reference. Ideas: walks, music, favorite toys, texting friends, or gaming for teens.

3. Calm your child down before disciplining them.

Stay patient during your child's tantrums. Guide them to calm down positively, like using a time out. Show empathy by understanding their feelings. Replace "You can't behave like this" with "I see you're upset, let's take deep breaths.

4. Practice mindfulness as you go through the week.

Visualize observing your thoughts from a distance. Don't engage with every negative idea; let them fade. Stay focused on the present, not past or future worries. When scheduling concerns arise, let them go.

5. Ask friends and family for support if you need it.

Reach out to your loved ones through calls or texts on tough days. They can lend an ear and share advice, especially if they're parents too. Remember, you're not alone—lean on your supportive circle to navigate homeschooling challenges together.

Feel free to visit our Facebook page "Mental Health and Homeschooling" for a supportive community or reach out via email at media@oliviabaylor.com if you require assistance.